Tips For Turning A Friendship Into A Romantic Relationship
You have a friend and you are simply crazy about her. She is beautiful, brainy and funny and on top of everything, you feel there is a special connection between you two. Well, but the sad thing is that you are just friends and everyday you ask yourself “Could it ever be more than friendship between us?”
Is there any attraction?
Firstly, try to figure out is there is any special attraction between you two. If the answer to this question is no, then honestly, there is nothing you can do to change your friendship into something else. Whatever you will try or whatever moves you will play, there will be no effect on her.
On the other hand, if you feel some special connection then you can surely give it a shot. Do not waste your time thinking why it did not work so far. There can be many reasons, maybe she was too busy to be in a relationship or maybe she was dating someone else. Whatever the reason is, now it is time and if you do not make a move, you will end up with nothing.
Try asking her directly for a date or say in simple words just ask her if she will like to go out alone someday. If she happily agrees, you can move on, but remember you are still friends, so do not cross your line. Well, of course when you are out you can try asking or at least signaling her that you like her.
Well, now finally you are out with her and all your fantasies are turning into reality, but it is still a friend going out with a friend. You have not indicated her about your feeling nor has she said anything. So, what can you do next?
Men, usually think that this is all they can do. However, the truth is you need to communicate about your feelings in the right way. At times, women like going out with men whom they do not really like. This can be for several reasons like:
- They are bored of looking for Mr. Right.
- Every friend of hers is going out on date and she lacks attention.
- She feels she simply cannot get anyone better than this.
Well, if this is the case then there is no future for your relation. Your relation will end soon and all your dreams will be shattered. Therefore, the next move is letting her know clearly what you think about her and where do you wish to carry your relationship. Telling this over a candle light dinner can be a good idea. Take a lot of care about the set up. However, do not take her somewhere where there are only couples. This may annoy her badly, if things around her are extra weird and strange.
Lastly, do whatever you want to but wisely. You definitely do not want to ruin you friendship with her nor do you want to feel embarrassed in front of other friends.
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